When a Love Spell Backfires …

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As we approach Valentine’s Day many of you are thinking of casting love spells without any training in magick because those cute little spells you’ve found online look so harmless and fun. Instead, what you’re asking for could be the worst experience in your life so far. Let me tell you from experience, when a love spell backfires it’s like an explosion because the energies of Love are magnetic and potent. So rather than bore you with a discussion of Occult philosophy, I’ll break it down to a few simple rules.

  1. Any spell is subject to the laws of Karma. That’s right kids. For every action there is a reaction and sometimes you don’t get the reaction that you were hoping for ESPECIALLY if what you are trying to manifest is against someone’s FREE WILL. Timberlake expressed it best when he sang, “What goes around comes around… “

 

Whenever I work with ‘Love’ these days I prefer to do ‘Attraction’ Spells where potential partners have a choice. It’s less invasive and incurs far less karmic debt. Think about it … are you willing to interfere with any potential future relationships just because this time you are yearning for someone specific?

So, before you decide to take the powers of Nature into your own hands, think very carefully about what you are doing.

 

Psychic Summer of Love 2018

HeaderAccording to the Ancient Greeks there were 8 types of love.  And today, most of my clients call incessantly about romance, marriage and divorce. But looking back in history, it’s clear that many cultures subscribe to many different types of love, loving and love relationships.  Love is foremost in the hearts and minds of many. There have been songs written about it, books based entirely on romance and movies that tell the same archetypal love stories over and over again. The Beatles sang, “All you need is Love!” and while that may not be true…  to many is sure feels like it. So, this Summer my focus is going to be on telling my audience my own stories of love told through the eyes of a celebrity psychic. So, come into my world and let’s celebrate a “Psychic Summer of Love.”

The Beatles sang “All You Need Is Love” in the first live global telecast and the world responded. But what kind of love?

This Summer I am covering the 8 types of love according to the Ancient Greeks juxtaposed with a modern take on the emotion, how each form of love applies to the modern world and incorporating Love Magick, Love Spells with a dash of psychic sensibility … because I’m down with Lenny Kravitz … “You’ve Got to Let Love Rule!”

The 8 Types of Love

  • “Eros” or Erotic Love. The first kind of love is Eros, which is named after the Greek god of love and fertility. …
  • “Philia” or Affectionate Love. …
  • “Storge” or Familiar Love. …
  • “Ludus” or Playful Love. …
  • “Mania” or Obsessive Love. …
  • “Pragma” or Enduring Love. …
  • “Philautia” or Self Love. …
  • “Agape” or Selfless Love.

If you would like to schedule a reading via Phone, Skype or Zoom then please join me in celebrating the Psychic Summer of Love with an offer of $30.00 for a FIRST TIME ONLY 30 minute reading, (regularly $80.00) so we can see if we’re a good fit. You need someone that you can talk to openly about your concerns who isn’t going to judge, but help. Love can make anyone crazy. So, in the best case scenario I’d like to be your psychic bestie, who will listen without prejudice, make you laugh when you want to cry and give you a little magickal assistance to pave the way to your heart’s desire.

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5 Relationship Lessons From The New Royal Couple

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FOX+ presents Prince Harry’s Story: Four Royal Weddings. The documentary recounts the most important turning points in Prince Harry’s life, as well as his romance with Meghan Markle.

Everyone loves love stories and everyone has one to tell. But today, arguably no other love story is as talked about or is as celebrated as that of Prince Harry and American actress Meghan Markle. Their wedding, which happened last weekend, was one of the most anticipated and watched events of the year. After all, it’s not every day that a prince gets married — much less one who’s often called England’s favorite prince.

While the world watched this beautiful romance unfold, everyone collectively celebrated and awww-ed as we learned more and more about the new royal couple. And as with all love stories, there’s always something wonderful to take from it, so here are five of our favorite relationship lessons that we learned from Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.

1. Keep it Sweet and Simple

Despite the wealth and influence that comes with being royalty, Prince Harry proved that you don’t need extravagant gestures or grandiose displays to express your feelings and prove your love to your special someone.

During an interview with BBC News, the couple revealed that their engagement happened during a cozy night together in their cottage, while they were trying to roast a chicken for dinner.

“It was so sweet and natural and very romantic. He got on one knee,” Meghan Markle shared in the interview.

2. Love is Blind

Did you know that the royal couple met on a blind date? A common friend of Prince Harry and Meghan felt that they would definitely make a great couple, so she set them up.

Not having known too much about each other before their first meeting helped the two get to know each other from their own points of views, and not from the news or the media.

“I didn’t know much about him, and so the only thing that I had asked her when she said that she wanted to set us up, was, I had one question. I said, Well is he nice? Megan said to BBC as the couple sat side by side. It proves that only we can truly choose and judge what our heart really wants.

3. Quality Time Is Crucial

Going from dating to engaged in about a year and a half can be whirlwind for most people, but to the new royal couple, it wasn’t really the case because of the time they had put into bonding and getting to know each other.

“I think we were able to really have so much time just to connect and we never went longer than two weeks without seeing each other,” Meghan told BBC.

And true enough, the new royal couple put in the effort to make time for each other. Only a few weeks after they met, they had already gone on a camping trip together in Botswana.

“We were really by ourselves. Which I think was crucial to me to make sure we had a chance to get to know each other,” Prince Harry added.

And since then, the couple wasted no time going on more trips, attending weddings or sporting events, watching plays, and even shopping for Christmas trees. It only goes to show that love grows truer and deeper when you really spend your time connecting.

4. Family Matters

With Prince Harry, it’s inevitable that his family will be fairly involved and present in his relationships — but with Meghan, the couple gladly put family in the center.

Meghan and Harry have spent time with Harry’s brother, Prince William and his wife, Kate Middleton, and Meghan has already met the Queen multiple times as well. Even the Queen’s corgis have taken a great liking to her.

But perhaps one of the most beautiful symbols of family in their relationship lie in Meghan’s engagement ring. Prince Harry specially selected the diamonds in the ring from his late mother, Princess Diana’s, personal collection. It was very important to the couple to include her in their engagement.

“I think she would be over the moon, jumping up and down, you know so excited for me, but then, as I said, would have probably been best friends with Meghan,” Prince Harry shared last November. “Its days like this I really miss having her around,” he adds.

5. Relationships Are About Teamwork

In interviews, the royal couple always call themselves as a team, and it’s not hard to see it either. Always hand in hand in photos and clearly supportive of each other when being interviewed, the couple exudes unity and strength.

Meghan has attended Prince Harry’s polo matches, while both Harry and Meghan have supported many charities, which is in line with Ms. Markle’s humanitarianism.

As the pair held hands on the couch during a BBC interview, Prince Harry says: “We’re a fantastic team. We know we are. And, we hope to over time try and have as much impact for all the things that we care about as much as possible. I know that at the end of the day, she chooses me and I choose her. And therefore, you know, whatever we have to tackle together or individually, it will always be us together as a team. ”

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ABOUT MARIE BARGAS:

mariecrop1Los Angeles Celebrity Psychic and Publicist Marie Bargas lives and works among the stars and celebrities.  She is a clairvoyant, medium and energy healer who incorporates tarot, pendulum divination,  chakra cleansing and balancing, sound healing, house cleansing, yoga and meditation into her work and her life as a mystic, yogini and spell crafter. Best known as a successful “bride maker,” Marie specializes in love, romance and finding true love. She began her career as an expert on “Entertainment Tonight,”  (as Marie King) made appearances on the Fine Living Network and was featured on the Love and Sex Report with Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger and most recently on NBC’s “EXTRA.” She is currently the Managing Editor of the ezine ENTERTAINMENT 2MORROW,  the co-producer of MAGICK LAB ACADEMY alongside pop culture guru, Tony Sokol and psychic Ana Divina and the co-host and talent of the upcoming “THE DARKWORKERS LIVE” through The Vampire Chihuahua Productions.  Marie is also a senior partner in Style Coven PR, a charming boutique start up,  where she combines her expertise in niche marketing the Occult and New Age markets to promote colleagues, products and services.

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The Basis of a Good Love Spell

candles-2000135_640Every year I am asked by many clients to do love spells. Many are looking to recover lost loves.  As we go into Venus Retrograde the energies are ripe for a return to love, but many are still frustrated because Karma refuses to allow a reunion until karmic debts are paid.  In all of my spell work I begin by educating my clients on the mechanics of Karma because karmic debt is often a reason why a spell will not work or not work completely.

I teach my people to think of Karma as a bank. And, like a bank if a “Karmic Account” is overdrawn during a working then there are “fees and penalties.”  The best way to remedy this imbalance is to continue to make “Karmic Deposits” BEFORE a work is attempted.  I often suggest that my clients do random acts of kindness, donate clothes and food to the poor, help a stranger unconditionally, volunteer at a children’s hospital, etc … and dedicate those acts of charity to whatever deity or energy we are asking for assistance.

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Although the magick that I teach is non-secular  (Magick Lab Academy), I personally work with Angels and Devas because these are the energies that I connect to the most. When working on Love I often connect to the Hindu Goddess of Love AND Devotion (Parvati) and the ArchAngels Gabriel (the Moon/Messenger) and Hanael the ArchAngel of Love. Raphael is likewise the ArchAngel of Happy Meetings and Happy Marriages.  In every work I seek to balance the energies of the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine in order to effect a significant change.  In my experience Love is an energy that needs to be nurtured like a seed on it’s way into blossoming into a flower.

But, before any work is done Karma must be addressed so we can see what sort of measurable effects can be expected without any major “Karmic Blowback.”  My solution to this is to ask my clients to write a list of everything that they want in a partner. Next, anything on that list that they cannot give to a partner themselves they have to cross off.  The basis for this is that you cannot ask for anything that you cannot give. Many of you will recognize this from “The Law of Attraction.” Once this list is completed and incorporated into the spell along with reasonable “Karmic Deposits” then and only then can a love spell be worked to it’s maximum potential.

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Magick is an energetic “messenger” and in love these messages can and should be delivered straight to the heart. The issue I have with forcing someone to love against their will is a violation of their freedom of choice. Instead I encourage my clients to leave the option to “choose” open in order to spare themselves the Karmic Debt incurred by violating someone’s free will.  In most cases a message of Love delivered to the heart with heart felt sincerity is enough to produce the desired results.  I do not encourage anyone to force the situation, but to make themselves more lovable which is the better way.

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Loving Lucifer: the Perils of a Demon Lover – with quotes from novelist Josephine Hart (‘Damage’) Updated 2/20

 

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When I was in my teens and so in love with love that my heart was broken almost every other day, I stumbled upon a novel that gave such an intense poetic nuance and substance to my pain that I still refer to it after all these years. From Wikipedia:

 

Damage is a 1991 novel by Josephine Hart about a British politician who, in the prime of life, causes his own downfall through an inappropriate relationship. It was adapted into a film of the same title by Louis Malle in 1992, as well as into an opera (calledDamage, an opera in seven meals) by Greek composer Kharálampos Goyós in 2004.

Today I am lost in a haze of sadness. Today I recognized the symptoms of alcoholism and denial resurface in my blue eyed, golden haired fallen angel like a shark’s fin in the ocean close to a group of unsuspecting swimmers. I remember the screams, the blood, the floating bits of heart flesh that come bubbling up in an otherwise blue ocean of dreams soon after that fin surfaces. My heart refuses to feel that pain again so it goes into an automated process of shutting down and raising shields. As it is, that spiritual shark is circling around the closed underwater dome of my heart, but that dome is not merely closed, it is armed with torpedoes that could turn that shark of a man into sashimi.

There was a full moon in the starless sky. I thought how rarely I had noticed such things. Some deep failure of the soul perhaps. An inherited emptiness. A nothingness passed from generation to generation. A flaw in the psyche, discovered only by those who suffer by it. JOSEPHINE HART – DAMAGE

I could have his soul for breakfast and that particular meal wouldn’t make me anything other that a wise woman tired of going through the same old shit. Souls like his have holes like Swiss Cheese and add a flare to a ham sandwich. I like my souls on sour dough bread with a thin film of Miracle Whip Light mixed with some Honey Dijon Mustard. I’ll have that with a Mimosa and carry on as if nothing happened.

That is my story, simply told. Please do not ask again. I have told you in order to issue a warning. I have been damaged. Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive. JOSEPHINE HART – DAMAGE

Like the doomed affair in  Damage our relationship is obviously fraught with danger because I am the adult child of an alcoholic and he is once again plunged into the depths of his disease. And yet, love draws us together as it has over 18 years. But as big girls know … love is never enough … it just makes it hurt even more than it could.

I always recognize the foces that will shape my life. I let them do their work. Sometimes they tear through my life like a hurricane. Sometimes they simply shift the ground under me, so that I stand on different earth, and something or someone has been swallowed up. I steady myself, in the earthquake. I lie down, and let the hurricane pass over me. I never fight. Afterwards I look around me, and I say, ‘Ah, so this at least is left for me. And that dear person has also survived.’ I quietly inscribe on the stone tablet of my heart the name which has gone forever. Th inscription is a thing of agony. Then I start on my way again. JOSEPHINE HART – DAMAGE

This is a karmic soul connection of epic proportions. He is not my twin who is ultimately more understanding but ever so unattainable. He is the fallen angel, the demon lover whose inner demons have trampled across the delicate pathways of my psyche because I have let him … I have welcomed him back every single time … because “I’m  Just a Sucker for Pain.”

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